Report cards at Gloucester County Christian School will be published and sent home in early November. For some students, it is day of reckoning. For others it may mean a trip to Friendly’s for ice cream. With the advent of administrative websites that allow parents to keep a daily watch on grades, the results on a report card will be no surprise. Some parents are more fastidious about checking grades. Other parents might be in the dark.
So… What can a report card teach a parent and student?
- Certainly a report card can be tangible evidence of hard work, good study habits and diligence. For some a “B” is the best the student can do and it should be recognized as such. Set your attention on several positive aspects of the report card. Don’t forget to comment on positive citizenship and behavior.
- Lower than expected grades can serve as a motivation to better during the next quarter. Don’t overreact to low grades. Parents can set up a reward system to help motivate. Stars on a chart on the kitchen ‘frig can be a simple enough way to motivate. Keep the motivating time period small enough to be attainable. Make the reward appropriate in value.
- Contact the teacher via email for assistance. She is willing to help and might give some insight into better study techniques. Is there a definite place and time for homework? Are distractions minimized? Let the teacher know what your study routine is. It is possible to share your concerns without blaming the teacher or student.
- Perhaps a contract can be established to help make progress in the coming quarter. This can be printed and placed in the student’s notebook, given to the teacher, and displayed where homework in done.
- Whatever you do, don’t say, “I was bad in science, too.” Whatever you do, don’t say, “Pack your bags and move to Canada.” The identity and worth of the child should not be rigidly attached to a document like a report card.
It is our job as parents to motivate, model and mentor our kids. Reviewing a report card does not have to be a bad experience. Use it as a great opportunity to establish a good work ethic and pride in a job well done.
PS- here are a couple of recommended websites to help with studying:
- http://quizlet.com – Quizlet’s flashcards, tests, and study games make learning fun and engaging for students of all ages.
- http://www.ixl.com – Math and English “practice that feels like play.”